Waiting for a door to open...

Wow...a lot has happened in the past 3 weeks.  After my chemo treatment on July 1st, my CA-125 numbers came back even higher.  I was able to get in on July 5th and had a PT scan and consulted with the radiation oncologist.  The good news was that the ovarian cancer didn't seem to be real active in my abdomen, but there were 4 spots that showed up on the scan in my chest.  One is the nodule I can feel in my right chest wall, another is in my right lung, and one in the lymph nodes under each armpit.  When I met with the radiation oncologist, she said that she could get to all those areas with radiation, but said that as the cancer has obviously metastasized, doing radiation isn't going to do very much other than just shrink those areas...it won't really be killing the cancer cells that are flowing through my bloodstream and lymphatic system.  She said that she felt that trying to get in on some clinical trials of a new chemo drug is going to be my best option.  When I spoke with Dr. Prystas, after receiving the PT scan, she felt exactly the same way.  She recommended that I go to MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, TX to consult with them and see if there are any clinical trials going on there that I could participate in.  I've learned in the past two weeks that MD Anderson is one of the two premier cancer treatment centers in the U.S.  The other is Sloan-Kettering in New York.  I understand that most of the cancer research and clinical trials goes on at these two centers. Dr. Prystas then sent me to Dr. Reading last week to have a biopsy done of the nodule in my chest, because she wanted to have a little bit more information as to whether we were dealing with breast or ovarian in the chest area.  Well....because everything I do has to be unusual and weird, it ends up that this big old tumor in my chest is ovarian cancer.  Who would've thought?  Duh....I should have gone to Vegas and bet on that happening!  Anyway, Dr. Prystas sent the referral off to MD Anderson just this past Monday, and they were supposed to review my records and call me this past week to schedule me to go down there to meet with their specialists and have tests run.  I was excited to get home from exercise class on Wednesday morning and learn that MD Anderson had called me...I shouldn't have been so excited.  They were only calling to tell me that they were "out of network" for my insurance, Select Health, and therefore, couldn't see me until I received approval from Select Health.  I can't possibly express in words what a frustrating morning that was, as I spent hours on the phone, trying to make the patient advocate person at Select Health understand what my predicament was, and trying to get the reviewer at MD Anderson to schedule me an appointment (she didn't.)  The bottom line of the past 4 days is this: 
1)     I have cancer that my doctors and the specialists at IHC and Huntsman can no longer treat.
2)     I have been on the same HMO with Select Health for 12 years (we can't get the really good insurance because Vern is self-employed), and apparently there are NO "out of network" benefits on our particular plan.
3)     Select Health is reviewing my request to go to MD Anderson, but they have up to 2 weeks from last Wednesday to decide, and if they do approve my going to Houston, they will only approve 1 procedure at a time--ie. they will only approve my receiving one consultation with a physician there.  Any other procedures needing to be done, will also have to go through the system to receive approval.  MD Anderson doesn't operate that way--they practice in a multidisciplinary way with all sorts of specialists working under one big roof to coordinate your care.  They tell patients that when they get an appointment, to plan on being there from 3-7 days while you meet with a variety of specialists and have tests done.  All of this is done outpatient, while I cover all my travel and lodging costs on my own.  Operating in this way would quite possibly have me out there a couple of weeks.
4)     I can't even find out if there are any clinical trials I could participate in, until I go through this procedure....and MD Anderson won't schedule me an appointment until I get approval from Select Health.
5)     I asked about what the approximate cost of this first week of tests & consultations would run, and they couldn't tell me....it all depends upon what they do.  They said that "self-pay" patients (ie. patients without insurance that have money, are expected to put down a "deposit" of $16,800.  Mind you, this is just a deposit for seeing me that week...not what it will actually cost.  When I asked if I could schedule an appointment if I sent them the money, I was told that because I have insurance, I would need their approval before I could schedule anything.  AAARRRGH!
Soooo....you can see why I'm just waiting for another door to open.  It's been a tough week to get through.  I've had to keep in mind, though, that the Lord has given me assurances throughout these past 3 weeks that this is the direction I need to take.  I have been blessed by the great exercise of faith, fasting and prayers on my behalf by my family and friends...they have been tangible, and are what has kept me going.  I have received many "tender mercies" through the sweet acts of service, (given often when people didn't really even know what I was going through), and through the spiritual blessings and comfort I received as I was preparing my lesson for Sunday School today.  God is truly good, and I know He is continuing to watch over me and my family.  Love always, Kim